This week, my friend Gwendolyn Glover has asked me to guest-blog on her Web site, Little Miss Writer. Her theme for this month is people's relationships to their bodies, and she asked me to write about how I think a person's body image affects their capacity for sexual pleasure. I'm cross-posting my thoughts here and on Gwendolyn's blog...

This column is written in response to a suggestion from a Tool Shed customer who felt that talking with us at the store had made him feel less "weird" (his word) about his desires, and thought that other men might find the same information valuable. So, forthwith: a beginner's guide for heterosexual men who are interested in being anally penetrated by their female partners...

In my mind, there are two separate questions being asked here. The first is about female ejaculation, and the second is about incorporating urine into erotic play, which is often called watersports or piss play. It is likely that the clear fluid that you saw was female ejaculate, which sometimes appears when a woman's G-spot is stimulated. Many sex educators...

At this time of year, we get many people in the store who are looking to purchase presents for their partners. Buying a sexy toy, book or DVD for someone can be a great way to spice up your relationship or carve out some me-time during the crazy holiday season, but since every person's sexual desires and responses are so...